Relationship Reflection

Building relationships/partnerships are very important to me. In order to have a positive relationship with someone, it takes effort from both of you. When you have a good relationship with someone, they can be trusted and relied on in times of difficulty, they are always ready to help, and they are enjoyable to be around, and in return you do the same for the relationship to work.

There are several people that I have a positive relationship and standing partnership with. They are my Mom, Husband, and Children. These people are always there when I need them. The expression “actions speak louder than words” is definitely true when it comes to a relationship. They are many factors that contribute to maintaining these positive relationships and partnerships. One of the most and valuable factor is “trust”. I believe that without trust, a relationship or partnership cannot work.

My Mom- Mom has always been there for me from birth to now. She has always loved, cared, and supported me. She has always been able to confide with me and try to support my well-being. She always has a helping hand and is willing to give whatever when needed if she has it.

My Husband and partner- My husband and I have a positive relationship. I met him in high school and we have been together since then. We had to build this relationship in order for it to be positive, passionate, and withstanding. Even though, we have had a lot of challenges to develop and maintain a positive relationship, we were always able to work through them. Now our relationship/partnership has the stability that’s stronger and more lasting.

My Children- As a mom, I have a positive and ongoing relationship with my children. I am there to support them mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I am not only their mom, but also their friend in which they can come to me with whatever they need.

I also have “friends” that I have built a relationship and partnership with. Having healthy, productive relationships with my family and friends is the most important thing to me in life. Each relationship and partnership gives me a chance to invest my energy making another person’s future better. Everyone needs to strive to build good positive relationships and partnerships with people in the society today in order to make the world a better place.

As an early childhood professional, I want my work to have an impact on my children and families. Not only will I like to have a positive relationship with them, but to also have an effective partnership in promoting the development of the child. By doing this, I will involve parents in making choices about their child’s development, give the families a voice in decision-making by respecting their interests and a commitment to partnership, and continue to maintain the trust.